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Saturday, February 5, 2011 / 11:55 PM
i know that you are not perfect
and i am not perfect either.
But please BELIEVE me,
when I say that I want to be by your side,
to hold your hand, to treasure you, to be next to you,
to be held close to your heart now
and for the rest of my living years,
I want to comfort you, dry your tears and be by your side when you are most frightened and not afraid of embarrassment when i shout across a bunch of people that i love you.
Labels: You never lose by loving. You always lose by holding back..
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Friday, October 1, 2010 / 9:13 PM
When you plant lettuce, if it does not grow well, you don't blame the lettuce. You look for reasons it is not doing well. It may need fertilizer, or more water, or less sun. You never blame the lettuce. Yet if we have problems with our friends or family, we blame the other person. But if we know how to take care of them, they will grow well, like the lettuce. Blaming has no positive effect at all, nor does trying to persuade using reason and arguments. That is my experience. No blame, no reasoning, no argument, just understanding..
Labels: You never lose by loving. You always lose by holding back..